Which Saint Matches Your Toxic Trait? | Fr. Patrick Briscoe and Fr. Joseph-Anthony Kress

August 27, 2026

From Toxic Traits to Holiness: Finding the Saint You Need

What can St. Augustine teach us about narcissism? What does St. Joseph have to do with ghosting? And could St. Thomas the Apostle be the patron saint of FOMO?

In this episode of Godsplaining Fr. Patrick Briscoe and Fr. Joseph-Anthony Kress put a Catholic spin on “toxic traits.” They explore narcissism, holding grudges, ghosting, impulsivity, FOMO, and gaslighting—and look to the saints for examples of how our weaknesses can be transformed through grace.

The friars discuss St. Augustine’s journey from self-centeredness to profound humility, St. Maria Goretti’s heroic forgiveness, St. Joseph’s faithfulness and responsibility, St. Peter’s transformation of impulsivity into rightly ordered zeal, St. Thomas the Apostle’s journey beyond FOMO, and St. Thomas More’s steadfast commitment to truth.

The goal of the Christian life isn’t to erase your personality. The saints reveal something far more compelling: Christ can sanctify who you are. Discover how the virtues, examples, and personalities of the saints can help us confront our own weaknesses and continue along the path toward holiness.